How important is your marriage to be a major event, not only for you, but also for your friends and your guests. They are waiting for him to happen and once they happen to stay with the feeling that ... they want to do it again!
if you find yourself in Kythira rather you fall in love. And if you go once, you will meet again there, perhaps more formal reason next time ... and somehow Kostis and Ino marriage begins...
might think that a wedding on an island like in Kythira, is anyway special. Yet not separate was because the couple itself, and all participants thyself.